So it’s polite to start with “excuse me” to avoid alarming them. You’ve just met the girl so avoid asking serious questions like, “What do you do for work? Similarly to the opening line, keep your initial conversation simple and situational.
For example if you’re talking to a girl at the train station, ask where she’s heading today. Laughter is the way to a woman’s heart, so if you can banter and joke around she’ll be extremely receptive to the idea of meeting up with you again. ” and she replies with “Brighton” (a seaside town in the UK), you could reply with something like “What to sunbathe?
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This group interview is chock full of expert advice from 32 of planet earth’s best dating coaches and pickup artists.
When you find a girl you want to approach, always assess the situation first.
If she looks in a hurry or appears to be emotionably unavailable, respect her space. Practice on your highs and lows and accentuating words like you’re telling a story. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not to impress a girl.
You need the reassurance a girl likes you before lunging in for the kiss. It’s not cool to ask a girl “Is it OK if I kiss you? Instead, learn to be observationally aware of the situation, pick up on the cues and know the right time to smoothly go in for the kiss.
Here are the common indicators of interest to look out for. As a way of ending the conversation on a high note.
The ultimate goal of pick up is to ‘close the deal’ in whatever shape or form that may be.
Whether you exchange phone numbers, go in for the kiss or take a girl home with you, ultimately depends on the situation.
If you meet a girl at 8.50am in Starbucks on your morning commute to work, you’d settle for a quick number exchange.
Now it’s time to give you a step-by-step breakdown of the process for picking up a girl. In the time it takes to think up a clever pickup line, you’ll probably miss the golden opportunity to approach. An example of a situational opener (if it’s cold outside) would be saying something like “Where did you get that amazing coat? The aim of the opener is simply is simply to grab her attention. Start with “Excuse me” if you approach a girl in the daytime. You’ll be able to tell in a matter of seconds if your personalities click.
We’ll start with the approach and end with how you exchanging numbers. If you can’t think of anything to say on the spot, a simple “Hey” or “Hey, hows it going? Women don’t expect to be chatted up during their daily routines. So there is no need to straight up interogate a girl on her hobbies and interests in the hope of finding a connection.
And above all make sure your compliment is non creepy or overtly sexual. Telling a girl you think she’d look sexy in a bikini is a little overboard.