Various reasons for this, all BS, but reasons nonetheless — or excuses rather.For example some of the breakup excuses have been: this one is one of the cleanest cut ways out.Stage three is also an opportunity to build a deeper relationship with your partner as each of you recognizes that you are loved and accepted for being your true self. Month six is a when the couple learns how to be a couple and still maintain a level of independence within the relationship.During this period of time the couple begins to incorporate their previous relationships skills and fun interests into the couple relationship.“Sam” ________________________________________ Dear Sam, To avoid finding yourself in this situation, I am going to tell you loudly to STOP what you are doing and step back s-l-o-w-l-y. If you try to avoid one of the stages, problems may develop in the relationship, which may result in you or your partner ending the relationship.
We’ve talked in the past about whether or not it’s a good idea to date a man who is separated from his wife (the response was something to the effect of, “terrible idea! But would you date a guy who is actually actively taking steps to get out of his marriage even though it’s taking longer than planned?Month two is the romantic stage and during this stage both of you want to spend increasingly amounts of time together.People often describe this stage as feeling physically attracted or infatuated with the other person.By now hopefully the couple has built a foundation on trust, honesty and integrity.For some this may lead to marriage for others this means being in a monogamous relationship.Anyway, below are the thought process I have held onto that has help me deal with this 3 month cycle of dating: – You can’t make anyone do anything they don’t want to: if someone doesn’t want to be with you there is no convincing him into it.