Pros: Going on a date with another couple helps hold your teen responsible and resist temptation.
Christian teens face a lot of the same temptations as other young people, so having friends there can be helpful.
Tell your teen that you will talk about dating when he or she is ____ years old.
Then you can sit down and have a conversation to see if your teen is ready.
Pros: Telling your teen to be careful when holding hands, kissing, or touching can help him or her avoid situations that can end up going too far.
It also helps teens identify early when a situation is becoming dangerous.
The Solution: Discuss temptation openly with your teen.
You don't have to divulge all of your temptations, but explain how temptation is normal and everybody faces it.
Don't just cite Scripture -- explain how it applies.
Cons: Demanding that your child waits until marriage to have sex without explaining why may backfire.
Using a punishment approach (the infamous, "If you have sex, you will go to Hell" approach) may only make your teen more curious.
Cons: Not all teens mature at the same rate, so even though your teen comes to that age, he or she may still not be able to handle it.
The Solution: Try using that age as a "review" age.
Pros: Letting your teen know that you expect purity is important to tell your teen.