Years of Sahara-like drought will give way to a summer full of eternal possibility, teeming with tapas dates and dinner dates and beach dates galore.
One day, you’ll wake up in a daze, and find yourself with a bucket full of eligible, decent, good dudes, all clamoring for your attention.
Who’s to say that dating multiple people isn’t a sex cult? If your vagina is magic and keeps collecting various suitors, then your sex cult fantasy is your own personal truth.
Keep doing what you’re doing, because it seems to be working.
“How could I possibly date two people, or even three people, when handling one person was too much?
When does “dating multiple people” become “in my mind, I’m the leader of my own sex cult and I’m collecting followers”?What happens when one, or two, or three of the people are starting to catch feelings, and is leading up to The Talk, but you’re not ready for that? If you suspect that one of the people you’re seeing is starting to develop real, actionable feelings, and those feelings just aren’t there for you yet, it’s in your best interest and theirs to be honest.It’s perfectly okay to really like somebody, but not be ready to make the commitment that The Talk implies.“How could it be that the universe is handing me such a Herculean task? This embarrassment of riches is your prize for enduring countless shitty dates and rebuffing the advances of grody bros in I-banker loafers who are too drunk to see straight while you’re waiting in line for the bathroom.If you ever, ever feel bad about dating more than one person, remind yourself that if you were a dude, this behavior would be second nature. The golden rule: Make sure they don’t know each other.Should you keep dating others until something more serious develops or go in for the kill on the one you want more with now and risk them ending it?