I’m sure all of us ladies could think of things we wish guys would do while hooking up – but how are we supposed to know what they want us to do?
Being enthusiastic during oral sex is a big plus, because a lot of guys think girls aren't into it. Source: SHutter Stockreal_polite_canadian: Be vocal. One of my best friends is of the opposite sex and it drives me crazy when she tells me if she's slept with someone and he wasn't very good because he didn't do this or he did this but he did it wrong. Source stayshiny: Not enough women understand that when I'm tired, I'm tired. I know that it's socially acceptable for women to turn down sex sometimes, but when a guy does it, everyone wonders why, because he's a guy.
Just like it’s not fair to ask him to never look at any girl ever while he’s with you. Is it normal to want to show off hickies and bite marks?
Porn really is pretty harmless, and it’s actually great for you as a woman.
Guys can see a girl and think ‘Wow she’s sexy’ and think about sexual stuff with her, but does that mean he wishes he were actually with her as opposed to you? Porn is the same, in my opinion.”“It’s not cheating.
But if it’s something that you are not comfortable with or he is being disrespectful about it or obsessed with it then you need to tell him that you don’t feel comfortable with it and hopefully he respects that. Keep in mind they don’t love or care for the people they are watching, don’t let it bring you down or anger you.
We loved this Ask Reddit thread on what guys think women don’t do enough of in bed.